ok im man enough to admit when im sooo impatiant that i dont check my emails lol just read this
"Hello Tom ,
Thank you for your continued support of bidJDM. This is an automatic email to inform you that there has been a status change to your auction item id
'*********'. The status has been changed to
'Need to be Paid to Seller'. This means that we have registered your auction item in our database, collected the seller contact information and sent emails to them to inquire about paying them for your item. We will update you as to the status of the item as soon as the next step is taken. Thank you again for your support of bidJDM."
followed by another email asking for conformation of option choices, thanks to all at RHD and bidJDM awesome service
will know what to expect next time i buy from it