abortion arguement again!
- Thread starter wesgt
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i agree with it under the right circumstances, if the baby is going to b brought in to the world it needs to be loved and looked after, if the baby was goin to b neglected and abused then its not fair on the child to go through that. accidents can happen with condoms, ive had it happen but the mrs didnt get pregnant. if both parties dont feel they can look after the child then it is better it is aborted.
AdDaMan
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I agree. Contraception isnt always effective you know.
you have just contradicted yourself mate
my personal opinion is that its up to the individual. i dont see anything wrong in it. better the child isnt born than it having a bad upbringing. i wont say any more than that incase i offend anyone.
malcolmgt
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weird one, as sometimes as you say concetraception fails (lucky not here lol).
i dont think i would be ready for a kid but end of the day a guy has no say in it if a girl is being stubborn. if i was with someone for a while and happy with them and she got pregnant for any sort of reason by accident think i would be happy to keep it if that is what she wanted.
i dont think i would be ready for a kid but end of the day a guy has no say in it if a girl is being stubborn. if i was with someone for a while and happy with them and she got pregnant for any sort of reason by accident think i would be happy to keep it if that is what she wanted.
dac69er
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what i dont understand is all these rules and regulations about what you can and cant do and what you can and cant have, but when it comes to another human life any scummy lowlife can have that, no questions asked?
its one of the things i will never understand in this world!!!!
its one of the things i will never understand in this world!!!!
you have just contradicted yourself mate
my personal opinion is that its up to the individual. i dont see anything wrong in it. better the child isnt born than it having a bad upbringing. i wont say any more than that incase i offend anyone.
not really, i don't agree with the fact that a stupid young one can go out and ride all around her and then if she gets pregnant she can just tip anto a clinic and problem sorted!
any amount of ways to prevent a pregnancy in the first place but people aren't educated enough.
you'd be surprised how many people don't know how to use the morning after pill properly.
there are exceptions to everything, if a girl gets raped and gets pregnant as a consequence she should have the right to get rid as she didn't ask for it, wheb you consent to sex your automatically accepting the fact that a pregnancy could arise, in the case of rape this isn't the case.
if a pregnancy is putting the life of a mother in danger, better to lose the baby than both!
exceptions to everything
thats what happened with me and my partner,she was on the pill but it didnt work for some reason. we decided we would be able to do it right, so now ive got a 1 year old boy and never been happier, skint but happy haha
so you weren't using protection then?
not saying you should have cos i'm sure you love your son, but you get me, my and my gf don't wanna get pregnant so we take the precautions
JonoPhilpott
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My Mrs was on the pill ... it failed and i wanted rid and she doesnt agree with abortion so weve now got a sprog but i wouldnt change him for the world now!
so is the pill not classed as protection?
so you were on the pill too? :haha:
matt walters
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same with me, (pill) yeah maybe should have used extra protection, but you dont think it wil happen to you with the pills sucess rate or whatever you wanna call it.
i feel it up to the individual/ couple and there circumstances what they wanna do, we had been together about 7 months at the time this arose, so we decided to abort as neither of us were ready. we dont regret it at all. but if it happened again we would have the child.
just for me and mrs it wasnt the right time, since this we are so much closer than we were before.
scot-ish
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i agree with it, for certain reasons.
im kina conflicting in my explanation, before anyone tells me i contradict myself.
but for, i think, if you can be told early enough on in the pregnancy, that the child isnt going to be 100% normal(i.e a disease of some sort) then abortion should be allowed, as i would rather not have a child introduced into a horrible life( im only guessing, but i cant expect it would be much of a life, with a lifelong disease) rape ect obviously, and also, if a kid is under the age of 16, then the decision should be left to the kids parents, i know 99% would go for abortion, but the option should be there.
but i think, as wes has said, about people shaggin all the time, then all they have to do is allow people only one abortion, thats it, that way you only make the "mistake" of not using contraception once, after that, you live with the consequences.
anyway this country needs to get like china, and limit the number of kids per couple.
im kina conflicting in my explanation, before anyone tells me i contradict myself.
but for, i think, if you can be told early enough on in the pregnancy, that the child isnt going to be 100% normal(i.e a disease of some sort) then abortion should be allowed, as i would rather not have a child introduced into a horrible life( im only guessing, but i cant expect it would be much of a life, with a lifelong disease) rape ect obviously, and also, if a kid is under the age of 16, then the decision should be left to the kids parents, i know 99% would go for abortion, but the option should be there.
but i think, as wes has said, about people shaggin all the time, then all they have to do is allow people only one abortion, thats it, that way you only make the "mistake" of not using contraception once, after that, you live with the consequences.
anyway this country needs to get like china, and limit the number of kids per couple.
i think everywhere needs the limit until we can sustain a population!