if you are having problems with feeding them ,you can take them out, put them in a small tub and put in a few crickets at a time ,when the eat them, put in more ,till they stop eating,dont put 2 many in at a time as this can freak them out,it is recommend they be housed separte ,but some people get away with it them together,even with 2 fermales ,one can become more dominet.a male and a female together during breeding time, the male can keep trying it on,and stress the female,the main thing is not to keep baby beardies on sand ,as they can swallow it and become impacted,and kill them,there is great care sheets on that website,that website is like tgtt.com to starlets,it is also importent to have your tempurtures spot on,i bought a infared thermo gun of ebay for 20 quid,very handy,hope this helps mate,but join that website ,top class