its christmas, i put any differences out of my mind for this time of year, and to be honest when you stop holding on the grudges etc, its easier to get along.
clean slate so to speak.
everyone has reasons no matter how small to be angry or disappointed in eachother, its worth sometimes just forgiving and starting fresh. once a few nasty words have been said and a few weeks pass it hard to remember why you dont really "get on" with someone you just leave them out and ignore them because you know you dont like them/or vice versa but its worth forgiving and being as pleasant with them as anyone else.
im sure everyone has there ups and down with a faimly/group of friends, but dont hold any grudges life too short to not be friendly with your friends..... you see it just doesnt make sense
Phil