yes you can dispute it go to the paypal resolution centre on there web page to start your dispute, if you sent it as a gift your stuffed as your not covered by buyers protection, you have to send payment for goods to get buyer protection.takes a while to do but you will get your money back if he does not respond to them or does not have proof of postage.if not you may have to take a trip to bournemouth to get you money:teach: