Don't agree that you need to touch the fuel pump at all. The only reason people say that is because everyone else does for the sake of it.
If you're using the stock injectors then you're never going to be more than 90% duty cycle, even with slight pressure increases with an AFPR it's not going to have a significant effect on the pump - and if it did only at WOT on full boost.
The use of an AFPR is to force a small amount of extra fuel through the same injector opening duration - to compensate for when the MAP can no longer read the extra boost you're running. The fuel pump needs to keep the rail pressurised.
Anything more than a small amount of fuel then you should be using piggy back or a full aftermarket ECU. And in this case you can run whatever injectors and fuel pressure you want.
Both my pumps are now 20 and 19 years old, one of which is still working fine with 510cc injectors!
Regardless of that, what extra boost do you want to run?