stupid thing to say on here but cant help it

weeJohn

Lifer
Where you are at is not an easy place to be, been there myself and i wouldnt want to be back. If its really getting to you make an appointment with your doctor and tell him your situation, he is bound by confidentiality rules so it cant do any harm to you legally. He might perscribe you a course of mild anti depressants as they help to regulate the chemical inbalance of the enzymes in your brain that are giving you the paranoia, but you need to stay off the drink and the gear for a while for them to work.

Keep yourself busy and fill the times when you usually sat smoking with something else, you will need that girl around you and a few other strong mates to get back on track lad. You have made the first few hard steps, you are on the right track lad.
 

96v

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i was on it mate for about 10 years, smoking in my prime about an 8th a day - £20!!!!!!!! it got so bad that i had withdrawls after half a day n got horrible sweats n shit!!! i used to keep all my empty bags in a drawer n one day i decided to count them in order to see how much i had been spending :S by my calculations it came to near 2 grand and thats not including any of the stuff i had finished at a mates or wotever!!!! i have recently stopped like you, and now feel so much more awake, my conversation is better, i can speak without messing my words up, lol! i dont really see many of my mates now either as they are all hardcore smokers and i know that the temptation will always be there if im around them. everytime i get a slight craving i put the money i would have spent on grade in a pot that i have to break open and am saving it up for my forged engine :) that'l give me much more enjoyment than a smoke :) it gets easier mate, take it from someone who knows :)
 
its hard, i dont hang around with any of my mates anymore, every last person i know smokes and takes all other drugs. its too hard lik, but not gonna go back on it. had few smokes in the past few months and starting to like it again. have to stop now. thanks for all the replys too, ye all helped:)
 

Stulet-GTT

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i use to smoke it every day, mrning to nite...
stopped smoking it about 6years ago an feel better for it, have a puff now an then when i been out but could never smoke it like i use to...
 

*Zoe*

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Keep it up and you'll soon realise you dont need it, i used to think i did but now i can take it or leave it even if someone is smoking infront of me. What helped me was having some seriouse time to myself and realising i couldnt remember pretty much the last year of my life cos i spent most of it in a smoky room playing on my sega. So i got 3 jobs started my driving lessions went to the gym every day and stopped hanging round with my mates i smoked with for a few months. and it work i had no time to think about it and i was to tired to need it when i went to bed, slept like a baby and didnt wake up all groggy for once.

Now i love my car and wouldnt of had it if i kept it up i have a cheeky smoke every now and again but only on nights out cos i dont drink to much and its fun in a social situation. i still go to the gym every day so i got a new healthy hobby out of it aswell.

Mainly just about finding something else that can chill you out so things dont get on top of you if its the gym or something like building a remote petrol car takes time out your day and can be fun.
 

Turbo for balls

Fresh Recruit
the thing with weed is it effects people differently, some people including me and my mates can have a j in the evening and do well at their job and life in general, some people cant handle it and let things get to them. Its all about having other interests and using weed as a reward. I dont like drinking so smoke most of the time, drink is 10x worse for you in every way, the worst thing about weed is the crimanal record, the only thing to be paranoid about is police, i have never had any negative affects from weed only positive and same for my pals.

if its effecting you bad its best to stay of it, but at the end of the day its all about mind control
 

GI BOY

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I smoke weed every day all day and i cant stop no matter how much id like to i cant.. but at the same time i love it cant get enough of it and dont want to?? the only reason why i do think to myself i want to stop this shit is when i have no money for things id like to do or things id like to buy.. my god its a pricey habit me and my twin give 50euro a day for 2 grams of the stuff.. never got paro on the stuff i think thats all bull shit... its not as bad as smoking smokes imo
 

dan-gt

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fair play to you mate, we all been there and smoked a lot of dollor away "good times" :D at the moment you in a shit place but like its been said get mind occupied and get down gym. my dog helped me a lot before bed would take him for a good walk and last 5-10 mins we would have a good sprint home to tire me out ready for bed. dont see it as a problem ! to me the worst thing was talking about it just put it to back of your mind and tell yourself you can and have beat it !! make goals in your head and give yourself rewards to do it, sounds daft but the simplist of goals and rewards works mentaly.


KEEP US UPDATED WITH YOUR PROGRESS MATE AS THAT IS A GOOD GOAL TO KEEP !!!!

not some daft day 8 no smoke as shows you thinking about it mate

i mean like day 8 got up early for a light work out, after work me and arr lass went swimming took dog for walk ect i hope you get the point dont keep reminding yourself every day what you trying to do try and forget

All the best mate it can and will be done.
 
fair play to you mate, we all been there and smoked a lot of dollor away "good times" :D at the moment you in a shit place but like its been said get mind occupied and get down gym. my dog helped me a lot before bed would take him for a good walk and last 5-10 mins we would have a good sprint home to tire me out ready for bed. dont see it as a problem ! to me the worst thing was talking about it just put it to back of your mind and tell yourself you can and have beat it !! make goals in your head and give yourself rewards to do it, sounds daft but the simplist of goals and rewards works mentaly.


KEEP US UPDATED WITH YOUR PROGRESS MATE AS THAT IS A GOOD GOAL TO KEEP !!!!

not some daft day 8 no smoke as shows you thinking about it mate

i mean like day 8 got up early for a light work out, after work me and arr lass went swimming took dog for walk ect i hope you get the point dont keep reminding yourself every day what you trying to do try and forget

All the best mate it can and will be done.

sound for that mate, been off it along time but been smoking few js lately. havent smoked one now in about 2 weeks so going strong.
 
I smoke weed every day all day and i cant stop no matter how much id like to i cant.. but at the same time i love it cant get enough of it and dont want to?? the only reason why i do think to myself i want to stop this shit is when i have no money for things id like to do or things id like to buy.. my god its a pricey habit me and my twin give 50euro a day for 2 grams of the stuff.. never got paro on the stuff i think thats all bull shit... its not as bad as smoking smokes imo

50euro for 2 grams?? i used get 5grams for 50. i used think like you, loved it and wouldnt stop for the world but realized it was fuckin me up. fell away to nothing, couldnt remember what i was doing 5 mins ago. still kinda fried but got much better. trust me , you can give it up.
 
the thing with weed is it effects people differently, some people including me and my mates can have a j in the evening and do well at their job and life in general, some people cant handle it and let things get to them. Its all about having other interests and using weed as a reward. I dont like drinking so smoke most of the time, drink is 10x worse for you in every way, the worst thing about weed is the crimanal record, the only thing to be paranoid about is police, i have never had any negative affects from weed only positive and same for my pals.

if its effecting you bad its best to stay of it, but at the end of the day its all about mind control

sometimes i used to smoke and just relax and wouldnt be able move but other times id be in the mood to go do shit, like play soccer , do weights etc. think hash made me lazy. anyways i sick of the shit, waste of time and money. but in my opinion theres no harm in the odd jay. not gona smoke it anymore tho, it does fuck you up if you smoking lots of it.
 
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