Well, she left me...

goldenvtr

goldenvtr

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dude i feel your pain but serisouly youll be fine ina few weeks. the best thing to do is have NO contact with her atall.

ive split from a relationship of jsut under 7 years, (was a mutual split and we remain good friends) but the last relationship i had which was 10months ended 2months ago iwht her attacking me at work! she got the sack but i also had alot of shit i had to sort out legally becuase of how crazy she was!

but the last month or so has been awsome! you get to flirt with whoever you want with no tie downs and you really get to apprictiate your mates. i know its hard but youll start to see the light dude, we all have those bad thoughs youll be thinking off, trust me, dont do it.
 
Neal

Neal

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You could however just go round on the bounce and assault her with foreign objects up her asshole!
 
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Aimee

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Good to here some lads giving eachother advice on us women :haha:

To be fair, i'd play her at her own game. wel it wouldn't be a her with me like but you know what i mean if she's telling you to fuck off an all that just let her be, dont text her or anything try not to let her know your botherd about it an if you meant that much to her she will realise what she's lost an come running back and if she dont come running back then just get on with it an do what all the other lads say an fuck about lol :)

Obviously not a nice thing to go through but just keep Smiling, ChinUp!! Everything happens for reason, You'll find out that reason soon enough if she comes back you'll be stronger, if she dont you'll either have the best single life or you'll meet someone better :)

Aimee x
 
After-Glanza

After-Glanza

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I'm sorry to hear about what your going through mate, there is a lot of helpful replies posted up here that will help you get through it. I really haven't got much i could add apart from reiterating what a few other have said and suggesting that you spend as much time as you can around people that have always been there for you.

I know if i'm going through a tough time or feeling a little down over something, spending time with my family and friends goes a long way in helping me forget about it for a while and this is always a good thing.

With specific regards to your ex, i would do my best not to text her, even though that may be hard for a while it will be worth it because theres no point in showing how upset you are anymore, she obviously knows how you feel about her and if she feels she has made a mistake she will get in contact with you. I would personally make the most of the opportunity you have now and do your best to pull a few birds. lots of rebounds FTW!! :rockon:
 
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korn8696

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mate im soz to hear i am going through the exaxct same thing and her reasons were pants in my opinion but i can see it was best for us both as im away alot now and shes never in either as shes just about to explode on to the movie seen. yeah i was with an actress shes away doing a movie just now in america. now think how bad that is. i believe ther is always somone out there that there is worse than you and i cant help with you feelings but look at it as an experiance and try to move forword as thats whats life is about being able to move forword no matter what happens to u and still be able to move forword. i hope u can work things out and keep u chin up bud i know its hard and that ur hurting but look at it this way u still got your own life and its worth living so go out and live it exactly the way u want to do it. thats what im having to do.
(and if anyone askes im not telling you who my ex is she wouldent appreciate it and i wouldent either)
 
Phil

Phil

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tis a crying shame, im with you in spirit.

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Phil
 
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Iain@CRD

Iain@CRD

Lifer
Its what you do now that counts, get your mates round about you and itll soon be forgotton about. Its harder when you spend time yourself.

I slept with my ex's mate, that helped me.
 
simonjp

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Dude we are all forgetting summit. You got a starlet turbo. More money for that now. Turn that boost up and get jdm touge racing.
 
rb69

rb69

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It happens to us all mate and it's never easy, just makes you stronger.

Just as men are bastards, women are snakes with tits. Trust me. Best way to get over someone is to get under someone else. When I split up with my ex about 2 years back i just stayed single, had my mates around me so always had a laugh and soon got over the situation. Just met a stunning 22 yr old and been seeing her for a month and it's great. Having some time single is good too.
 
SupaStu

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Bad news dude, but at least she was honest and could say that she didn't want to go out with you anymore rather than being unfaithful etc. I know its not much consolation though at the moment.

Plenty of talent this time of year tho, with Christmas parties etc ;)

Try not to analyse and dwell on everything too much, and get caught up in the bitterness. Enjoy your friends, beer, car, xbox, gym whatever, and fuck it why not redecorate. Just change things up to keep yourself busy and interested in other stuff.

Get a dog dude, they will never leave you, they rock! My dog tours around with me in the glanza, loves the boost (and the aircon) :rockon:

Have a look at the EPIC thread again (chillout room) to cheer yourself up :)
 
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Arnold

Arnold

Lifer
SupaStu said:
Bad news dude, but at least she was honest and could say that she didn't want to go out with you anymore rather than being unfaithful etc.
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I have to disagree, women who give really shit excuses/reasons and aren't really listening to any effort you make to win them back have already moved onto the next bloke. They'll believe they're doing the right thing and try and excuse it any way possible, as they know the reality of their mistake if they're wrong - and when it does go wrong, and it will, they will come crawling back.

The best thing to do is what others have said, go out, be with your mates, have a laugh and do whatever you need to do to get over it. Don't sit there waiting for her to return, or live in hope she'll change her mind - why would you want to be with someone anyway who's easily going to give up on a relationship. If she texts, ignore her! it really plays on there minds (as others have said)

I've been there myself, and it's very saddening especially looking back at the good times and stuff, but trust me things do get better. I met a great girl, got my glanza, and loving life, doing things i never imagined i'd be doing. So keep that head up and just say yes to doing everything! Life is more fun that way. New wardrobe etc etc, get confident and get out there!!!

I know i don't know you but if you wanna chat just drop us a PM
 
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boostup

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no offence mate but when i first saw ure post on the main page i thought that you were on about youre car :haha:
 
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seab

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As everyone has said time is the greatest healer (biggest cliche i know but it is true). Best thing i did to get over an ex was start kickboxing and karate. Helped me vent, but also something to focus on and feel all round better :)

Hope things go well when you go for this drink, just be careful. Dont mention your ex at all, and dont fall too quickly for this new one for fear of not being able to find anyone else :)
 
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