woman problems!!!!!!

[danb87]

ok . im a lil confused right now. ive been with my missus 3 years now. n problems are cropping up an need advice. before me an her got together some idiot i have never got on with n her had a history, but nuffin ever happend with them.

when we got together i asked her too not socialise with him etc as i really cant stand him, she promised me she wouldn. 3 years down the line an ive discovered that a year into our relationship, she went out on her bday, an he was at same pub an they had picture taken together. 2 1/2 years off telling me she hadn spoke too him or anything.

i had a recent mishap of going to a mates house after a big car meet, an pics were taken of me there an girls were there. one of her friends showed her the pics, an she went off on one at me bout it. as i hadn told her. i said i dont think it matters as i didn knwo any off them personally an didn have any history with them.

ive had weeks off hassle bout that only too find out bout her an this pic tonight.

i dont wanna be hypocritical on this, but i feel that shes more in the wrong than i am but im having it all blamed too me.

im going insane right now, i dont know what too do, my darkside wants too go round an see this idiot an let it out on him but then agen my gf is just as much too blame.

what am i mena do peeps

 

[STARLET88]

birds tut!

Just be kool! .....And not shout..yet lol.

I see where your coming from defo that there was no reason for you to tell her about ur pics... but you not what birds are like you could of mentioned it then at least your ass would of been covered!

I see why you fel hurt etc lied to!! what a cow... I would confront her and ask her wat its about... try not to get angry ( if ya get angry then in future she will use that excuse thatthats why she does not tell you things cos of how your react!) but see what explantion she gives... if you dont ask her it going eat anyway at you.. n then the shit will hit the fan!!

But i think your in the right m8!! ... It not the end of the wrold n worth killin her ova but it going play on ur mind!! ......shes probs trying to twist it to make her look good and your the bad person having a go at you abour ur pics!! ! Well if she think's what you did was wrong bust a cap in her ass... n tell her what you no!

Bet she creeps back to ya if she that sorry!!

that my input anyway!

gud luck

let us no!

:argue:

 

[danb87]

Just be kool! .....And not shout..yet lol.

I see where your coming from defo that there was no reason for you to tell her about ur pics... but you not what birds are like you could of mentioned it then at least your ass would of been covered!

I see why you fel hurt etc lied to!! what a cow... I would confront her and ask her wat its about... try not to get angry ( if ya get angry then in future she will use that excuse thatthats why she does not tell you things cos of how your react!) but see what explantion she gives... if you dont ask her it going eat anyway at you.. n then the shit will hit the fan!!

But i think your in the right m8!! ... It not the end of the wrold n worth killin her ova but it going play on ur mind!! ......shes probs trying to twist it to make her look good and your the bad person having a go at you abour ur pics!! ! Well if she think's what you did was wrong bust a cap in her ass... n tell her what you no!

Bet she creeps back to ya if she that sorry!!

that my input anyway!

gud luck

let us no!

:argue:

ive been up all night rowing bout it mate. but she just uses the its ok for you but not me line. what a load off crap aye

 

[STARLET88]

Oh dear dude!!

Well nah i wound not take that... dont like to have fights but when i think i am in the wrong i stand by it!...

Wats her excuse then??

I think she should of mentioned it!

She should think how she would fell... if she found a pic of a you and a bird with history that she asked you neva to speak to it would soon play on her mind!!

Its not worth fighting over you both need 2 compremise.... n maybe dare i say it ...both say your in the wrong like A truce!!!!? Or you going to keep going around in circles!?

 

[danb87]

Oh dear dude!!

Well nah i wound not take that... dont like to have fights but when i think i am in the wrong i stand by it!...

Wats her excuse then??

I think she should of mentioned it!

She should think how she would fell... if she found a pic of a you and a bird with history that she asked you neva to speak to it would soon play on her mind!!

Its not worth fighting over you both need 2 compremise.... n maybe dare i say it ...both say your in the wrong like A truce!!!!? Or you going to keep going around in circles!?

excuse was it was for 5 mins, i said it shudn have happened full stop.
her parents dont help the situation as i dont get on with them, an they know i hate this bloke. an it was them taking the pic etc.

 

[STARLET88]

Well there just trying 2 interfear in your relationship then .... n make sure ur pissed off! Stoopid mind games!

Well i dunno dude it should not of happend. But we do all do things wrong.. it is only a picture i no how you feel. How much ya love her!?

 

[sanchez]

Mate if you like her, which i guess you do as you have been with her for 3 and half years- Just say sorry, and that you didnt think not telling her about these pics as it wernt a big deal and that you didnt think it would cause problems.
Say you wont do it again. (you got to be sorry, even for such a small thing for her to be sorry mate) I know this cos its happened to me loads lol

But make sure she understands that what she did in a way was wrong cos you asked her not to socialise with this guy and that it has betrayed the trust between you both.

Hope you sort things matey!

 

[danb87]

Well there just trying 2 interfear in your relationship then .... n make sure ur pissed off! Stoopid mind games!

Well i dunno dude it should not of happend. But we do all do things wrong.. it is only a picture i no how you feel. How much ya love her!?

too much mate, more than i think i shud.

 

[danb87]

Mate if you like her, which i guess you do as you have been with her for 3 and half years- Just say sorry, and that you didnt think not telling her about these pics as it wernt a big deal and that you didnt think it would cause problems.
Say you wont do it again. (you got to be sorry, even for such a small thing for her to be sorry mate) I know this cos its happened to me loads lol

But make sure she understands that what she did in a way was wrong cos you asked her not to socialise with this guy and that it has betrayed the trust between you both.

Hope you sort things matey!

she dont feel like shes done any thing wrong, she acts inocent.

 

[STARLET88]

i guess thats wat really pissin u off now that she thinks she done nothing wrong... but if she thinks that about you... how can she think that you where doingwrong?? shes contradicting her self there! (Am sure thats real bad spelling!)

It cant be the end of the world..... But you no she wont forgive you till you say sorry has she said sorry?

:slap:

 

[sanchez]

she dont feel like shes done any thing wrong, she acts inocent.

You been together for over 3 years mate, you must have a trust thing otherwise you wouldnt been together that long, but she has betrayed your trust in a way mate as you asked her not to socialise with him but did...

She not understand that mate?

 

[danb87]

You been together for over 3 years mate, you must have a trust thing otherwise you wouldnt been together that long, but she has betrayed your trust in a way mate as you asked her not to socialise with him but did...

She not understand that mate?

no mate she dont, an she dont trust me atall

 

[danb87]

nope when i asked why she lied she just said i didn lie i just didn tell you!

 

[STARLET88]

WHAT DOES SHE THINKING LYEING IS THEN!! omg m8 just slap her!!! n then slap her 4 me!!


If she thinks she dint lie.. then how the hell does she think that you lied!!


Ignore her i would! make her creep!! stoopid woman!

 

[danb87]

WHAT DOES SHE THINKING LYEING IS THEN!! omg m8 just slap her!!! n then slap her 4 me!!


If she thinks she dint lie.. then how the hell does she think that you lied!!


Ignore her i would! make her creep!! stoopid woman!

lol there just headcases i swear too god

 

[smythy75]

Mate just tell her it's over cause u can't have the hastle of being blamed! Plus if her parents dnt like u it's gonna b hard to win! If u tell her you have had enough and walk away she will come crawling back. I tel you mate it's defining moments like this that will shape your future. It's like make or break mate!

 

[simonjp]

Pimp slap everyone. Just anyone that walks infront of you today pimpslap them.

 

[Sharkman645]

Tell her it over nothing like a good boot in the arse to sort her out and bring her back into line, had to do it a couple times to make my one realise she out of line and that im not going to stick around if shit doesnt change.

And if that doesnt work just give her the hairy side of your hand that makes them listen to

 

[danb87]

Mate just tell her it's over cause u can't have the hastle of being blamed! Plus if her parents dnt like u it's gonna b hard to win! If u tell her you have had enough and walk away she will come crawling back. I tel you mate it's defining moments like this that will shape your future. It's like make or break mate!

lol i duno if i cud bring myself too do that. not so easy

 

[danb87]

Mate just tell her it's over cause u can't have the hastle of being blamed! Plus if her parents dnt like u it's gonna b hard to win! If u tell her you have had enough and walk away she will come crawling back. I tel you mate it's defining moments like this that will shape your future. It's like make or break mate!

Pimp slap everyone. Just anyone that walks infront of you today pimpslap them.

ive hit too many people this past 2 weeks lol