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Hi all this is a bit of an odd situation that a friend of mine has found themselves in a while back. I thought I would ask you lot for your opinion and then maybe steer her in the direction of this thread so she can finally figure out if she did make the right decision or not as at the moment its still something that occupies her mind a little.
You may laugh at this and I fully expect some amusing responses but Id like a couple of serious ones too as its not a joke for her.
Many many months ago she told me that she had a suspicion that someone was stealing some of her personal items. I told her she was probably imagining it but as the weeks went on she became convinced of it.
Finally she discovered it was true as it was happening very frequently and she also found out who it was. It was a bit of a touchy subject as they were all a member of a large group that hung out together. She didnt know how to handle the situation but thought that the guy who had been caught and admitted he had been stealing her personal items (underwear) might be so shamed he would do something silly to himself so she told his brother to speak to him about it.
Now this is where the problem starts. His brother was a really good friend of her and her boyfriend and when he was told he started treating them differently and stopped calling around etc.
The chap paid for the stuff he had stolen but the group of friends was kind of split. In fairness to the girl in question she could have told the whole group the story of what had happened but she didnt.
The situation now is that she did absolutely nothing at all... had stuff stolen from her and is now the one who is being treated differently.
I know this is bothering her so I thought I would turn to the TGTT clan to see if they think she handled the situation correctly or not.
So what do you think?
You may laugh at this and I fully expect some amusing responses but Id like a couple of serious ones too as its not a joke for her.
Many many months ago she told me that she had a suspicion that someone was stealing some of her personal items. I told her she was probably imagining it but as the weeks went on she became convinced of it.
Finally she discovered it was true as it was happening very frequently and she also found out who it was. It was a bit of a touchy subject as they were all a member of a large group that hung out together. She didnt know how to handle the situation but thought that the guy who had been caught and admitted he had been stealing her personal items (underwear) might be so shamed he would do something silly to himself so she told his brother to speak to him about it.
Now this is where the problem starts. His brother was a really good friend of her and her boyfriend and when he was told he started treating them differently and stopped calling around etc.
The chap paid for the stuff he had stolen but the group of friends was kind of split. In fairness to the girl in question she could have told the whole group the story of what had happened but she didnt.
The situation now is that she did absolutely nothing at all... had stuff stolen from her and is now the one who is being treated differently.
I know this is bothering her so I thought I would turn to the TGTT clan to see if they think she handled the situation correctly or not.
So what do you think?
