I would say I'm a good judge of character, I like to sit back and work people out before I decide if they're worth any time! Goes for blokes and females, guys don't make themselves out to be really complicated unlike women (Because they're really not), hence why alot of girls prefer guys as friends - whether the guys motive is friendship is another story!
The thing is with alot of guys these days is that they're increasingly obsessive and insecure and feel they need to know everything and it's a trait that really can do alot more harm than good. I'm hoping that some of the girls Kelly etc may agree with me on this. (Girls can be just as bad!).
My philosophy is that you should relax, whats the point in fussing over something you have no control over, I'm not suggesting be an ignorant fucker, but to be confident and calm. Things happen for a reason, and if something sinister is going on then I see it as their loss! Pitty them.
Different girls like to be treated in different ways and like different things (mainly the less mature), but you should never have to change or act in an un-natural way to please them.
BUT insecurity and obsessiveness is a fault with yourself... so doesn't apply to the above statement.
God I sound like some sort of freak.