Feeling Depressed
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59bhp
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well your not looking in the right places then
well thats the problem, i dont go looking but the psyco ones seem to find me
must be the month for relationship problems
it is!! sadly enough i read it in the paper at work on some days of january.. cant remember which it is the day most divorces are filed through, also theres a day thats gone when most couples break up, apparently some bollocks about astrophysics and the moon changin over light blah blah etc that maes the male testotorone kick in and send there mental state into stress, which maes little things angry them. this then causes arguments over stupid stuff like food or sarcastic comments... as i found out last night with my mrs, going on hol tonight, she threatened last night at 2.02am precisley that i should find someone else to go on holiday with as she does not want to see me or even speak to me again!! and if i text her back she would ban my number from her phone!!!!! wtf your all crazy mofo's!! apparently im to sarcastic... but the fact we sat in the car just cruisin round town for 45 min, she did not say a word then got a text of a lad that fancied her, i turned round and said in a cheeky way... is that your other boyfriend (wink wink) and she flipped!! what is the point, dead nice that after i just paid 1200 quid for our holiday!! think what i could of donw to my car with that!! mmmmm the possibilitys are endless.... (no endorsment to master card on that last comment
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Lifer
i cant see what the problem is. the guy was only joking, it was hardly a fit of jealousy he had
59bhp
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i always do that, if someones tells me to do somethin then i just automatically do the opposite, even if its detremental to myself. Especially if im in a particularly childish mood.
If someones asked me to do something though i would always consider it before i went and did whatever the hell i wanted to anyway lol
If someones asked me to do something though i would always consider it before i went and did whatever the hell i wanted to anyway lol
Idrees
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Cheers for the comments this site has some great people
I see her all the time, she wanted to talk today but I didn't wanna hear her lies anymore. College feels shit just like everything else!!
I didn't get her a christmas present because we don't celebrate it (still respect it though) but I got her loads on her birthday last month and always did everything I can to make her happy. Fuck it, some people don't appreciate you and then try to fill u with lies.
Onwards and upwards!
I see her all the time, she wanted to talk today but I didn't wanna hear her lies anymore. College feels shit just like everything else!!
I didn't get her a christmas present because we don't celebrate it (still respect it though) but I got her loads on her birthday last month and always did everything I can to make her happy. Fuck it, some people don't appreciate you and then try to fill u with lies.
Onwards and upwards!
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Lifer
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Lifer
Djaniero
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Hey Idrees. Sorry to hear your having a bad time bro. But as others have already said, your young, and this is all part of a learning/growing up process.
I was in a similar situation a few years back with my ex of nearly 4 years. At that time, I thought my world had to an end man. I tried literally everything to get her back, but it seemed to push her away even more.
Luckily with the help of my friends and family (can't thank them enough) I was able to get over it slowly but surely. In a way, I'm kind of glad we split up, as I now love single life, and have learnt so much since.
Now shes suddenly got in contact with me a few times, and wants to meet up to talk. Many of my friends/family think shes finally seen the light, and wants to get back with me, but I should'nt even bother to give her the time of day, after the way she went on but who knows. I'm still going to meet her to see what she has to say.
I know it seems shit now, but things will get better truss. Just keep your head up, your mind accupied and spend lots of time with your friends and fam
In response to what some people have said about most women being nuts, I have a few theories.
After working in a womens clothes shop for nearly 5 years, aswell as having tonnes of female friends etc, I reccon I've finally come to some form of conclusion why most women act crazy at times, and why most relationships fail.
I reccon the bottom line is that women, simply lose interest and attraction fast, for needy insecure guys. i.e. most women always seem to go for the bad boys, unpredictable guys, cocky and funny or rich and wealthy dudes, but hardly ever the nice guys imo.By nice guys I mean, guys who phone them all the time, give them compliments, shower them gifts all the time etc.
I've seen it plenty of times in work, when my female collegues come and tell me about the dates they had over the weekend. Half the time, they don't end up even going on a second date, as the guys were too possesive, needy and clingy on the first date. First impressions are always vital at times.According to them, its a really bad turn off and kills attraction really fast. Most guys think looks is everything to women, but this is not the case. Personality plays a vital role too.
I think this also applies to relationships too, i.e. many guys, lets call them nice guys have their g/f finish with them, after the "its not you its me" speach. Then a few months down the line, shes with a guy that treated her nowhere near as good as you did, yet she seems to be overly attracted to this guy.Heres where the bad boys, unpridictable, and alpha male men etc come into to the picture. Why? Because attraction is'nt a choice, it just happens. And most women tend to go for a strong secure dominant dude, not an insecure wuss so to speak.
As I said this is just my opinion through what Ive seen happen, so feel free to comment and challenge anything Ive said.
Rant over - The End lol
I was in a similar situation a few years back with my ex of nearly 4 years. At that time, I thought my world had to an end man. I tried literally everything to get her back, but it seemed to push her away even more.
Luckily with the help of my friends and family (can't thank them enough) I was able to get over it slowly but surely. In a way, I'm kind of glad we split up, as I now love single life, and have learnt so much since.
Now shes suddenly got in contact with me a few times, and wants to meet up to talk. Many of my friends/family think shes finally seen the light, and wants to get back with me, but I should'nt even bother to give her the time of day, after the way she went on but who knows. I'm still going to meet her to see what she has to say.
I know it seems shit now, but things will get better truss. Just keep your head up, your mind accupied and spend lots of time with your friends and fam
In response to what some people have said about most women being nuts, I have a few theories.
After working in a womens clothes shop for nearly 5 years, aswell as having tonnes of female friends etc, I reccon I've finally come to some form of conclusion why most women act crazy at times, and why most relationships fail.
I reccon the bottom line is that women, simply lose interest and attraction fast, for needy insecure guys. i.e. most women always seem to go for the bad boys, unpredictable guys, cocky and funny or rich and wealthy dudes, but hardly ever the nice guys imo.By nice guys I mean, guys who phone them all the time, give them compliments, shower them gifts all the time etc.
I've seen it plenty of times in work, when my female collegues come and tell me about the dates they had over the weekend. Half the time, they don't end up even going on a second date, as the guys were too possesive, needy and clingy on the first date. First impressions are always vital at times.According to them, its a really bad turn off and kills attraction really fast. Most guys think looks is everything to women, but this is not the case. Personality plays a vital role too.
I think this also applies to relationships too, i.e. many guys, lets call them nice guys have their g/f finish with them, after the "its not you its me" speach. Then a few months down the line, shes with a guy that treated her nowhere near as good as you did, yet she seems to be overly attracted to this guy.Heres where the bad boys, unpridictable, and alpha male men etc come into to the picture. Why? Because attraction is'nt a choice, it just happens. And most women tend to go for a strong secure dominant dude, not an insecure wuss so to speak.
As I said this is just my opinion through what Ive seen happen, so feel free to comment and challenge anything Ive said.
Rant over - The End lol
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