Well, she left me...

simonjp

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dude go out an party. it was 3 hours from breaking up with my bird i was kissing someone back at mine. thats how i roll. move on.

i know its hard. ask team pp what im like. time is the greatest healer. but some other birds hot fanny on your facce is by the best!!!!!!!

hope i havent offened you just my 2 cents!!!
 

Fro

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Women, not worth getting upset about. Just think about the freedom, no hassle or commitments, chain round the ankles and more money to spend on the car or your hobbies.

Look on the bright side, always plenty of other lasses around and who wants to be with one who dosent want you? If they dont care about you, bollocks to them, plenty of others who will!

Chin up bud and dont get yourself down over it because its just not worth it!

Sounds like you were whipped buddy! :haha:

I`ll mostly leave it at that cause everyone has said all there is to say. At least your living and breathing buddy, it could be worse, chin up :kiss:

Just keep it real and enjoy life :rockon: :homer:
 

J25GTi

Lifer
Simonjp, thanks, that made me laugh...

cheers guys, feeling a bit better about it now, well, not feeling better about it, but i know you all right, and i have to just get on with it.

might try and get some sleep now, ifi can stop beating myself up about it. Really ought to go to work tomorrow, although i know im going to have to hangover from hell...

im going out tomorrow night with my mates for a bit of tea at the pub and to hang out, no idea about the rest of the week,

BUT, what did really cheer me up that i totally forgot about because i was wallowing in self pity...

i did pull today, shes 26, size 8 with massive tits and is meeting me for a drink saturday :beer:
 

simonjp

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its true though. cos realisticly a girl can get with pretty much any man if they are remotely attractive.

so you sitting there think great she is going out and getting her goodies and i got shit. fuck that. go out there and motorboat all day long. then you know when she comes back to you or throws it in your face when you see her with another bloke you can think whatever i just had a threesome with 2 thai brides.
 

J25GTi

Lifer
its true though. cos realisticly a girl can get with pretty much any man if they are remotely attractive.

so you sitting there think great she is going out and getting her goodies and i got shit. fuck that. go out there and motorboat all day long. then you know when she comes back to you or throws it in your face when you see her with another bloke you can think whatever i just had a threesome with 2 thai brides.

Dont i know it, well, we shall see what happens, but im likig your style, just go out and nail every bird going...

still feel shit, but at least i have something to look forward to now..
 

simonjp

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hey they dont call me mr.partyboy for nothing.

ok maybe they dont call me that. but go out. dont look for it. just socialise and talk to girls be yourself is my only advice.

team pp councelling service officailly started.
 

iamrab

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simonjp u made me lol there :beer:


listen bro keep your head up i know its easy for people liek us to say that but 2 1/2 yars ago i broke up witha girl i was with for 8 years so i understand how u feel ,i took 6 months and just bucked all round me lololol no seriously just joking but seriously just get out there and enjoy your life dont worry about too much

i met a girl about 8 months later and ive never looked back since ,if one thing ive learnt in my life its what will be will be ,enjoy what u have each day and just be thankful you have what you have.but keep ur chin up man get to the gym get your self looking mint and let the ladies know your back on the market :rockon::rockon::rockon:
 

addz

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I guess it's that time of year where partners don't want to get expensive over eachother, with xmas not far and all!

Or it must be the promiscuous close to winter feeling.

Whatever it is mate you'll get over it. Plenty of birds to shag this point onwards.
 

DizzyDragon

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I've been there. But new relationship with my beautiful gf and my gorgeous daughter :) IT does brighten up, although it doesnt feel like it to you.

Get up tommorow, have a long shower, geta a haircut, smarten yourself up. Get some new clothes, make a good appearance, then go out an enjoy yourself, doesnt mean gettin drunk and bangin other women.

You either gota fight for her or get over it. If you want her n u bang some other birds she'll think she ws meaningless to you, just pretend, no matter what, that it doesnt bother you.

Dont text her at all, if she does it'll be so hard but ignore it. if she rings, dont answer, but dont reject it either. she'll start worryin why u aint gettin in contact, and her mind will go into overdrive thinking wtf is he doing. She'll be thinking about u all the time without realising it.

Give ti a week, then reply to one of her texts sayin 'sorry, been bit busy so forgot to get back 2 u, u ok' or sumin, jus act like u dnt give a shit. She'll come running.

General rule: women want what they cant have. if you offer it on a plate she'll know ur a safety net for her to drop back on if she needs to :p

OR get drunk, that works too.
 

Foggy

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I know how it feels i broke it off with my bird 6months back after 18 months.then realised i made a mistake a month later did my best to get back with here. She was having none of it. It wasnt my first time breaking it off with her. Anyways she has now set a date a month later we broke up to get married to her new boyfriend and is now 8 weeks up the duff. Bitch they to trap me at one stage. I dont know if im better off with out her or cant help thinking what im missing. Looking back we had great times together but the only way it foward no point in looking back!
 

GT-TD04

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and is now 8 weeks up the duff. Bitch they to trap me at one stage. I dont know if im better off with out her or cant help thinking what im missing. Looking back we had great times together but the only way it foward no point in looking back!

Im telling ya,you'd want to be dodging that bullet better than Neo,now THAT can really be a mess
 

Neal

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IF thats how she wants to be my advice is tell her to go and fuck herself.


Its not easy iv been in your position before mate, she just dropped it on me one Friday evening and i just fucked off out round my mates for the whole weekend and then we basically didnt see each other for two months even though we lived in the same house she was always out with her mates while i just kicked back chilled out and tried my hardest not to think about it - i had a few good mates reassuring me talking me through it etc - Tim (sincere) on here was always talking to me and he will tell you i took it hard at the time, but it DOES get easier.. that feeling your feeling will go away trust me mate.

Its like you dont know what to do with yourself its almost like you have forgotten how to be on your own, but it gets easier and you do start finding bits and bobs to do and hanging out with your mates and you start to realise things are ok and you can get through it.

Eventually me and her stayed split up for 3 months and SHE came back to me asking to get back together. I thought things through and we did get back together BUT on my terms! simply because i realised that i was ok on my own and that horrid feeling i had when we split up was no longer there so i had a clear mind to make a proper decision!

Two and a half years later this is the result of us splitting up for three months, getting back together on MY terms (spending more time with mates etc, no nagging and what not)..

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We still have almighty arguments now, its ace when we do have them they are absolutely ferocious and we hurl all manor of abuse at each other - couple of hours later we are getting on like a house on fire :D

So i would say if she wants to go, let her mate.. if its supposed to be she will come back be it in 1 month 3 months or 3 years.
 

Foggy

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Im telling ya,you'd want to be dodging that bullet better than Neo,now THAT can really be a mess

Either she would be getting the boat to england or i would be lol either way my glanza wouldnt be going up for sale she is well behind me fuck her if she is happy let her off.
 
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