Well, she left me...

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MarcoFTE

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Women are as bad as guys, that's for sure! I'm single again for about 5 weeks now. And I had a relationship for 4,5 years. At least (I hope) she was honest to you. My ex wasn't. Found out that she was seeing someone else for 2 months or so. Also found out she had told me some more lies about things.
It's not easy to move on with your life, but don't forget, there's plenty more women in the country that can make your life a lot better :)
 
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MarcoFTE

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And what seab said. Do some stuff to clear your mind. I started swimming and spent some good time in the weekends with friends:)
 
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GaryGT

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Arnold said:
I have to disagree, women who give really shit excuses/reasons and aren't really listening to any effort you make to win them back have already moved onto the next bloke. They'll believe they're doing the right thing and try and excuse it any way possible, as they know the reality of their mistake if they're wrong - and when it does go wrong, and it will, they will come crawling back.

The best thing to do is what others have said, go out, be with your mates, have a laugh and do whatever you need to do to get over it. Don't sit there waiting for her to return, or live in hope she'll change her mind - why would you want to be with someone anyway who's easily going to give up on a relationship. If she texts, ignore her! it really plays on there minds (as others have said)

I've been there myself, and it's very saddening especially looking back at the good times and stuff, but trust me things do get better. I met a great girl, got my glanza, and loving life, doing things i never imagined i'd be doing. So keep that head up and just say yes to doing everything! Life is more fun that way. New wardrobe etc etc, get confident and get out there!!!

I know i don't know you but if you wanna chat just drop us a PM
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Dude shes already seeing another Bloke
In the Wings dude if shes HOT she will always have some1 chasing her
Get ur mates around ya and have some Fun times and TRY and forget her lad.
Get Laid :rockon:
 
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There is alot of good advice here dude! Trust me some these guys were here for me when my relationship failed after 18 months took their advice and now i am bigger and stronger for it! Go out with your mates have a laugh forget her and move on from this. In few weeks you will be fine trust me and on plus side you got a nice car too so all the girlies will be flocking to you!

Chin up! :p
 
J25GTi

J25GTi

Lifer
well, its been a week and she hasnt text me, ive not hearda peep.

When she left me i told her that if she doesnt want to be with me dont talk to me etc. Now, (its pathetic) im worrying she thinks that meant not at all. but i suppose in reality im just hoping she is thinking about me...

Went to work, still spent every night in th pub, need to find stuff to do instead of that. gonna go to work today to make some money. and i need to start getting back into my car again, its been sadly neglected.


Then i will have to start doing something in the evenings too

Well, hopefully meeting that bird tonight!

thanks for all the advice guys, i know your all completley right. nice to see peple actually care sometimes :)
 
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J25GTi said:
well, its been a week and she hasnt text me, ive not hearda peep.

When she left me i told her that if she doesnt want to be with me dont talk to me etc. Now, (its pathetic) im worrying she thinks that meant not at all. but i suppose in reality im just hoping she is thinking about me...

Went to work, still spent every night in th pub, need to find stuff to do instead of that. gonna go to work today to make some money. and i need to start getting back into my car again, its been sadly neglected.


Then i will have to start doing something in the evenings too

Well, hopefully meeting that bird tonight!

thanks for all the advice guys, i know your all completley right. nice to see peple actually care sometimes :)
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Have fun with that girl tonight bud! :D
 
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nutta

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go to clubs n meet a few new birds, get her nowing thats what your doing n she will wanna speak to ya etc, or, just move on n forget her dude.. i know its hard, but you start goin to parties and clubs n you will soon move on, just dont text or ring her or try contacting because she will think ur sad, just wait till she contacts you, n if she doesnt then forget her dude..
 
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MarcoFTE

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I told my ex the exact same thing (don't contact me anymore). That's what she did. I understand it is very weird having so much contact 2gether and then suddenly nothing. That feeling with fade with time. It will be much more easy in another month dude :).
Just keep your eyes open for ladies who are interested in you:)
 
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you have done well by not texting mate i know i couldnt,i couldnt go a day it would absolutely do my life in.at the end of the day she will proberbly realise that she threw away something special and will want you back.its hard but you will defo get over it,especially when this new girls on top of ya!
 
J25GTi

J25GTi

Lifer
the amount of texts i have written out etc and been sat there for hours deciding wether to send it or not is absolutley unreal.

oh well, life moves on.
 
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starletsam

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yeh mate it makes the time drag so much too but the worst thing would be if you had sent it and not had a reply as you would be checking your fone constantly ect.how did it go last night with the new lass?
 
J25GTi

J25GTi

Lifer
starletsam said:
yeh mate it makes the time drag so much too but the worst thing would be if you had sent it and not had a reply as you would be checking your fone constantly ect.how did it go last night with the new lass?
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Didnt go well, she was the most annoying person you could ever have hoped to meet, so up her own ass its unture, and i was ignoring it because it hought, at the end of the day, if she comes back to mine i wont care! but after 3 hours id had enough and just left her in town and went :beer:


She was SO stupid, and generally up her own ass and slagging everyone off, no matter how good the sex would have been i just couldnt stand her :haha:
 
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Matchew

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Chap if your stuck for summut to do in the evenings join the gym you'll better yourself, get in good shape and a great stress relever
 
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