1:A lot of factory cars have a secondary relief valve (pop-off).
Many cars come from the factory without a bov fitted
2:I know of no modern properly gas powered turbocharged car that comes without a BOV. Older pre-90s turbocharged cars used to come without the modern parts for reliability, such as BOV and intercooler, which is why many of them got their bad reputation in the first place.
i'm not quite sure how you've managed to get a turbocharger to spin backwards
It was done on a engine dyno to show reversion. The turbo began to stall first meaning you could see it literally slow and then come to a stop as it kept trying to recompress the same volume over and over. Eventually what happened was the engine could no longer absorb it. The turbo eventually stopped, there was a screech as the axial stress broke the shaft. The test was on a small displacement Japanese engine. It was to show what happens when the cfm in the intake and the turbocharger exceeds the engine displacement, a problem in Drag Racers at the time.
exhaust pressure is directly proportonal to intake pressure
Agreed. You may have 20psi in the exhaust housing, but 5psi on the intake side giving you a ratio of 4:1. However, the opposite can happen, where intake volume and pressure can exceed the exhaust pressure. Exhaust pressure/volume is fixed by the manifold and the exhaust housing + the ability of the downpipe to speed along that volume. The intake side usually has a larger volume to cross because it usually includes the compressor housing, the intercooler + piping, and the intake manifold. If you keep storing or pressurizing that volume it will eventually exceed the exhaust side.
This issue also comes up in high powered JDM cars and why they run fuel pressure regulators as explained to me by a Greddy Tech. The fpr is to ensure that during quick transitions from off to on boost, the incoming volume of air is met with a fuel forced through the injectors by the frp, as the previous volume may have already used up all the fuel.