Indeed there are too many netsperts, and too many people that follow what they say without actual experience of their own - in the end, a persons personal opinion will settle the case for their own setup, there's going to be people that argue against even the most professional of opinions, partly for the sake of arguing, but partly cause they will believe their opinion until proven otherwise.
I can't quite get the point I'm trying to get across - I can only use OEM examples of how Customer Feedback to BMW from the UK was that the ride quality on the Run-flats was too harsh for UK conditions...as a result, BMW has started doing a lot more Ride Quality Evaluation on the UK roads. It's not going to be as Black & White as "the car was developed in Japan, it's going to suck anywhere else", it's not the point I was trying to make...but I was trying to enforce the "Everything has it's purpose" point, and when evaluating suspension components, they are going to be tailored (in fine-tuning) to the environment in where they are tested. This is not to say at all that a coilover won't be suited at all to your needs or your conditions, they are not designed to be perfect for the 30km stretch of road on the Outskirts of Osaka type thing - but I'm pretty sure, things could be tailored for our roads, i.e. there is room for improvement.
Forget the American car debacle, that's a bit of a mis-judgement of mine as it's more Market driven than anything, as you rightly said.