sx_turbo
Lifer
well i have been going out with my GF for a year now, and at first every thing was fine and we had so much fun together, we all over each other, but she would never say yes to sex, i asked her why and she said that her ex used to force her to and felt uncomfortable with it and just needed time. well me being the gentlman said it was not a problem and i shall wait till the time is right, plenty of opportunitys have gone by since and there was still no change. one night we did attempt to make love, but she complained of a bad back so we stopped. Time went by and and she would always instigate love making but never go through with it, which made me really frustrated.
any way about june time things started going bad between us, we saw each other less than she was at uni, and was always out with her freinds and never seem to give a hoot about me, but i just passed it off as me being jealous and kept quite.
we then went on holiday to wales looking after her aunts house while she was away and she seemed very distant, i was hoping for a week of passion but she would spurn all my advances, she was always very argumentative, and really ratty.
i then left it a couple of weeks and nothing changed, so i told her that i dont think things are working out, i was really cut up about this and was miserable for 2 weeks.
then after 2 weeks she got back in touch with me and said that she really missed me and that she loves me, and how i was the best thing that ever happened to her and she realises how bad she treated me.
we talked and decided to try again, and that we would both try and make things work and she was gonna try harder in the bedroom department.
well 6 weeks later and still no change, i had a free house for 2 weeks as my parents went away, and i just got bombarded with loads of excuses.
we get on really well, and i know sex isn't the only thing to be with someone, i'm only 22 and i'm really frustrated, and it really gets to me when i hear everyone else goin on about there sex life.
i have strayed and slept with someone else and it was mind blowing, but this girl is in the same situation as i'm in and neither of us wants to split up with our partners.
my GF has now gone back to uni, and i want to stray again, but know its wrong.
i really dont know what to do.
If you got this far thanks for reading it was a bit of an essay.
ijust needed to get it off my chest.
any way about june time things started going bad between us, we saw each other less than she was at uni, and was always out with her freinds and never seem to give a hoot about me, but i just passed it off as me being jealous and kept quite.
we then went on holiday to wales looking after her aunts house while she was away and she seemed very distant, i was hoping for a week of passion but she would spurn all my advances, she was always very argumentative, and really ratty.
i then left it a couple of weeks and nothing changed, so i told her that i dont think things are working out, i was really cut up about this and was miserable for 2 weeks.
then after 2 weeks she got back in touch with me and said that she really missed me and that she loves me, and how i was the best thing that ever happened to her and she realises how bad she treated me.
we talked and decided to try again, and that we would both try and make things work and she was gonna try harder in the bedroom department.
well 6 weeks later and still no change, i had a free house for 2 weeks as my parents went away, and i just got bombarded with loads of excuses.
we get on really well, and i know sex isn't the only thing to be with someone, i'm only 22 and i'm really frustrated, and it really gets to me when i hear everyone else goin on about there sex life.
i have strayed and slept with someone else and it was mind blowing, but this girl is in the same situation as i'm in and neither of us wants to split up with our partners.
my GF has now gone back to uni, and i want to stray again, but know its wrong.
i really dont know what to do.
If you got this far thanks for reading it was a bit of an essay.
ijust needed to get it off my chest.