Csa

[lingl9z]

http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=g6vqCGhJBK4&feature=PlayList&p=4D6A97307A77B319&index=0&playnext=1

a phone call to the csa.... sounds about right!

 

[lingl9z]

And you still pay CSA even though your not on the birth certificate?

Yep they make you! and if you say but im not on the birth certificate they say they don't care its not there problem its yours and you've gotta sort it out with your Ex.

 

[Gav_Kara]

Yep they make you! and if you say but im not on the birth certificate they say they don't care its not there problem its yours and you've gotta sort it out with your Ex.

That is wrong,for all they know you might not be the dad,what proof have they actualy got that you are,totally wrong

 

[Iain@CRD]

I know exactly how you feel beatz im not on the birth certificate and my ex refuse's to put me on it etc and she tells me she don't rely on the money i pay etc as shes living at home rent free on the dole with benefits etc and still affords to go on holiday twice a year.... I can't afford to go on holiday this year and probably wont for the next 17years!.

Exactly the same as my ex, shes a complete bum, claims benefits all day long, gets my CSA money on top of that, she probally earns more than what i bloody do.

@kara - not really looked into this yet, but ill be phoning the CSA later explaining i have no access what so ever to my child. How can you justify paying for a child you dont get to see? I tried a mutal agreement ... big mistake.

@sx - you said it mate, certainly does suck.

Never head into battle without your helmet on ... youll get shot in the head for sure!!!

Iain

 

[stuart]

Sack the CSA off and say you have a mutual signed agreement with childs mother, that was what I did for first year and a half of my daughters life. Untill CSA forced us...

 

[Gav_Kara]

I hate bums,its like they get free child care so why cant they work,and then they just keep having more babies!

When i have a child,im going back to work after 6weeks and sending the child to nursery

 

[lingl9z]

Exactly the same as my ex, shes a complete bum, claims benefits all day long, gets my CSA money on top of that, she probally earns more than what i bloody do.

@kara - not really looked into this yet, but ill be phoning the CSA later explaining i have no access what so ever to my child. How can you justify paying for a child you dont get to see? I tried a mutal agreement ... big mistake.

@sx - you said it mate, certainly does suck.

Never head into battle with your helmet on ... youll get shot in the head for sure!!!

Iain

Yeah i wasted crap loads on solicitors etc and got me know where i've seen my kid only a few times since he was born, he's 1 now.... she won't let me see him or have him stay over, though she does send me photos through email but its not the same as being a dad....!

The CSA don't care what you have to say belive me i've tried countless of times with different case workers (never had the same one twice, Strange... Ohh there not in today?) do you end up explaing the same thing everytime you call and get fobbed off.

I told them my rents going up etc so how do you expect me to aford to pay this amount of CSA when i got bills/rent to pay and my ex doesnt? they tell me they don't take in to account ur bills etc anymore...! lol the csa will never cease to amaze me.

 

[Iain@CRD]

Sack the CSA off and say you have a mutual signed agreement with childs mother, that was what I did for first year and a half of my daughters life. Untill CSA forced us...

On the booklet i have it asks for a copy of this "mutal agreement" tho.

Iain

 

[lingl9z]

Sack the CSA off and say you have a mutual signed agreement with childs mother, that was what I did for first year and a half of my daughters life. Untill CSA forced us...

The CSA forced you to go through them even though you had a mutual agreement?

 

[Gav_Kara]

Yeah i wasted crap loads on solicitors etc and got me know where i've seen my kid only a few times since he was born, he's 1 now.... she won't let me see him or have him stay over, though she does send me photos through email but its not the same as being a dad....!

The CSA don't care what you have to say belive me i've tried countless of times with different case workers (never had the same one twice, Strange... Ohh there not in today?) do you end up explaing the same thing everytime you call and get fobbed off.

I told them my rents going up etc so how do you expect me to aford to pay this amount of CSA when i got bills/rent to pay and my ex doesnt? they tell me they don't take in to account ur bills etc anymore...! lol the csa will never cease to amaze me.

Thing is though your ex should be proud that your a proud dad and want something to do with your kid,they aint many dads out there that do!

 

[stuart]

Send her legal documents, know you will have to go through solicitors, but she WILL have to respond.

 

[Iain@CRD]

Yeah i wasted crap loads on solicitors etc and got me know where i've seen my kid only a few times since he was born, he's 1 now.... she won't let me see him or have him stay over, though she does send me photos through email but its not the same as being a dad....!

The CSA don't care what you have to say belive me i've tried countless of times with different case workers (never had the same one twice, Strange... Ohh there not in today?) do you end up explaing the same thing everytime you call and get fobbed off.

I told them my rents going up etc so how do you expect me to aford to pay this amount of CSA when i got bills/rent to pay and my ex doesnt? they tell me they don't take in to account ur bills etc anymore...! lol the csa will never cease to amaze me.

First thing i looked for was the section asking me for my outgoings, even my dad couldnt believe they dont ask for this information. They simply dont give a dam!

My son is 1 years old on March 11th and ive saw him a handful of times. Not seen him in over 8 months probally. She even tried to hide the birth from me and keep it a secret, stupid cow.

There is absolutely no rights for fathers so it seems ... seems like they get away with this everytime.

There quick enough to slam fathers who dont want anything to do with there children and take on there responsibilitys but what about the ones that do want to see there child and take on there responsibilitys!

Iain

 

[stuart]

The CSA forced you to go through them even though you had a mutual agreement?

I didn't want to, argument with the ex lead to CSA getting involved, also some other personal stuff I had with social services - CSA had to get involved.

 

[Iain@CRD]

Send her legal documents, know you will have to go through solicitors, but she WILL have to respond.

Its easy for my ex to go and seek legal information, because shes on the benefits they pay for a solicitor for her but yet im not entitled to legal aid because i live with my dad ... lol

As you said stu, same old UK.

Iain

 

[Gav_Kara]

Its easy for my ex to go and seek legal information, because shes on the benefits they pay for a solicitor for her but yet im not entitled to legal aid because i live with my dad ... lol

As you said stu, same old UK.

Iain

Wont citizens advice help you mate?

 

[stuart]

Its dire mate, it really is. Do feel for you.

 

[Iain@CRD]

Wont citizens advice help you mate?

Tried them buddy, there about as much help as a hole in the head. I went to a family solicitor and he was very helpful but £180 a visit ... she no's i would be getting tanked with these fees and would try her best to hold it out.

Iain

 

[sx_turbo]

ian man, i cant beleive all this, you ex sounds like a right muppet and she is being given everything.

nothing like the uk looking after there working class citizens, the very people who contribute heavily to the uk.

i dont see a person on benefits contributing to society in any way

 

[Iain@CRD]

Its dire mate, it really is. Do feel for you.

I feel for everyone who has similar storys mate, i know exactly how it feels.

Iain

 

[Gav_Kara]

Tried them buddy, there about as much help as a hole in the head. I went to a family solicitor and he was very helpful but £180 a visit ... she no's i would be getting tanked with these fees and would try her best to hold it out.

Iain

Oh right not sure what else to suggest then