food and that sounds a really good idea bar the fact that say there are 50+people wanting to come to the meet, i can assure you 50 people aren't going to want to go and get something to eat in a restaurant etc... a big BBQ in a field/park meet sounds spot on but it isnt summer quite yet......
Im not really sure, When there is a huge meet there are so many people you miss who is who and things get carried away.. just like massive parties, you keep them simple with limited people then you know its going to be kept under control, invite the whole road and your looking for trouble....
There is No way you can guarantee there will not be muppets doing there thing, you just have to take chances and see what happens, In my opinion that is.....
I think we should try again as personally i dont think the blue water meet was terrible, you got a handful of twats flying round the place but apart from that everyone seemed nice and gentle and was pretty good.... Maybe the next will be better...
And Mention in the next meet that Whoever steps out of line will be banned from the forum **PERIOD** .. you dont abide by the rules you can fuck off, in the nicest possible way......
Even a large banner or a few signs around the location stating this to people to be on good civilized behavior... I think this would work.....